Rule #7: Never Let Your Girlfriend Remain Friends With Her Ex

Every woman has a string of ex’s, and, like a lot of women, your girlfriend may be the kind who likes to hold on to a few phone numbers or even worse, remain in contact with them. Naturally, she’ll tell you she isn’t interested and they are just friends…

Bullshit. She’s keeping her options open…

There is no going back to ‘just friends’ once you’ve had a full relationship, and all that is, is an excuse to have back ups in case things go boss eyed with you.

Also, it’s just too tempting for her to run back to her ex’s and blab about how miserable she is with you whenever you hit a difficult spot. And believe me – they’ll only be too happy to listen to her.

So, what to do…

For one… make it abundantly clear to her that you are the new man in her life, and she is to cut off all contact with her ex’s, or she can go and fuck herself.

Do not compromise on this at all, or you’ll regret it.

Secondly… you also quietly do your own homework on her friends and associates, to find out anything she’s not telling you… such as the guy she ‘nearly’ had it on with at work, who is still super keen and actively trying to get with her, or whatever else.

While it’s true that most men are soppy bastards, you also need to be aware there are other real men out there and, if you aren’t on the ball, they could steal her away from under your nose, leaving you looking and feeling like a complete mug.

So, while you still hold her heart, you need to fend off any competition.

That means you are inevitably going to have to step up and directly, face to face, tell some guys to fuck off and leave it. Many will, but some won’t.

In extreme circumstances…

If they won’t take no for an answer, go around and beat them up if you have to – just don’t get caught. Mask up, and for Gods sake, don’t tell your girlfriend or she’ll think you’re a psycho and likely shop you to the police. You only want him to suspect it’s you and fear you for it, not have actual proof he can get you locked up for.